Continually experiencing extreme distress over the loss with no progress towards feeling better or improving functioning. Strong grief reactions that do not subside and last over a long period of time. There are some who believe ‘Complicated Grief’ is simply the manifestation of grief reactions combined with other mental disorders such as Depression and Anxiety. Other types of grief such as ‘Chronic Grief’, ‘Delayed Grief’, and ‘Distorted Grief’ all fall under the blanket of ‘Complicated Grief’.Īlthough the concept of ‘Complicated Grief’ is well known and generally accepted, it’s not without its detractors. Refers to grief reactions and feelings of loss that are debilitating, long lasting, and/or impair your ability to engage in daily activities. Also, for some but not all, it allows for meaningful time spent with the individual lending to a sense of closure and peace. However, it can allow those who love the individual to slowly and gradually prepare for and absorb the reality of the loss. ‘Anticipatory Grief’ is different than the grief response felt after a death and does not necessarily make the later any easier.
You may also feel grief over the loss of things other than the individual, such as loss of hopes and dreams for the future and the loss associated with a changing roles and family structures. You may experience anger, loss of emotional control, and helplessness. Grief that occurs preceeding a loss can be confusing, as you may feel conflicted or guilty for experiencing grief reactions about someone who is still here. As soon as you accept and understand someone you love is going to die, you begin grieving. Anticipatory Grief: (See our post on Anticipatory Grief)Īs its name suggests, ‘Anticipatory Grief’ is the reaction to a death you were able to anticipate such as when an individual dies from a long term illness. However, ‘Normal Grief’ is marked by movement towards acceptance of the loss and a gradual alleviation of the symptoms, as well as the ability to continue to engage in basic daily activities. Right, I just listed every symptom to every disorder that’s ever existed. It is not uncommon to experience periods of intense distress and feeling such as (but not limited to) the following: longing, crying, dreaming of your loved one, anger, denial, sadness, despair, insomnia, fatigue, guilt, loss of interest, confusion and disorganization, disbelief, inability to concentrate, preoccupation with thoughts of your loved one, fleeting hallucinatory experiences, meaninglessness, withdrawl, avoidance, over-reacting, numbness, relief, sadness, yearning, fear, shame, loneliness, helplessness, hopelessness, emptiness, loss of appetite, weight gain. Reactions to a loss can be physical and psychological. ‘Normal Grief’ simply refers to a grief response that falls under an extremely broad umbrella of predictability. There are no timelines and grief experiences generally vary from one individual to another. Okay fine let’s talk about ‘Normal Grief’ by first clarifying there is no ‘typical’ or ‘average’. It’s just a reference tool so you can understand the different terms you may encounter as a griever. Kind of like a wiki but less comprehensive and slightly more random. I’m sure most people operate under the assumption that grief is just plain old grief! So with this in mind I have created a ‘Types of Grief Glossary’. On the first page of results alone I found 10 different types of grief with 3 subheadings under ‘Complicated Grief’ and I thought to myself, “what the?!?” Who knew there were so many different classifications and titles? This morning I entered the phrase ‘Types of Grief’ into Google and my search returned a surprising number of results. Is this Normal?, Types of Grief, Grief Articles for Beginners
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